Welcome to the Kingdom… 

for years I have had the pleasure of being a part of the swingers lifestyle. i have been to incredible events, hosted parties, ran a lifestyle resort, been in as a married woman, and now experiencing the lifestyle as a unicorn. if you have questions, want to know more or want to explore your sexual side -schedule a session with me.

it has not been without heartache, joy, fun times, and some terrible times. no matter what happened, there was always something to learn from it. i have spent years studying human sexuality and had a front-row seat into a world that was once taboo. A project that turned into a passion.

When so many different people came to me interested in the swinger’s lifestyle - with so many questions and wanting to hear the stories - I decided to write a book and series that is based on real experiences of couples and singles. At the end of each chapter, there are questions to guide you when it comes to establishing your own boundaries and how to open the door to communication. It isn’t perfect - but it is sincere and genuine.

If you are going into the lifestyle to fix your marriage, your already doing it wrong and no good will come from it. Sex is a good thing, exploring it is a great thing. Be on the same page with it.

Incase you forgot - Be F*cking proud of yourself - it is ok to love yourself and it is ok to want a great sex life. Never allow yourself to feel shame after great sex.

  • Confidence

    The sexiest thing a person can wear is confidence. Learn to love the body you are in. Exploring, embracing, and taking care of yourself is crucial in building your confidence. Knowing you deserve pleasure and you deserve a healthy sex- life.

  • Explore

    Each person has their unique desires and wants when it comes to sexuality. What is holding you back from exploring those fantasies and desires? Having a sex coach can help you navigate those by offering advice, motivation, support, and guidance.

  • Communicate

    When it comes to sexuality, many people have a hard time discussing those issues, concerns, wants, and needs. The Upside Down Kingdom takes you into real personal experiences to help navigate what feels like murky waters.